There is a rub about life, it is a dance between our inner Self and Life. We move as best we can to keep up with the beat to not make a mess of the dance. But who are we dancing with? At first, we seem to dance with pain, adversity and conflict. All that we encounter in life that challenges our best intentions to make something out of the whole journey of life from childhood to old age. Sometimes we recognize we don’t dance well, others we just want to stop and not dance. But we realize it is worse, it hurts more.